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Sex Toys in Malls?

This article is based on my observation during a recent visit to the mall. I never really took into account, the depth of products stores sold. It was not until I became a business major in college, that I payed more attention. Due in part to my business background I have noticed the layout of a particular store is an artform. If you study marketing or sales, the placement of products is important. The layout of the store is vital to the success of any retailer. This keen eye that I am developing led me to notice something that many people might dismiss.
Many people know what sex toys are, they come in different shapes, sizes, and colors just like people do. There is something for everybody. I am by no means an expert on the subject what so ever, but I do know one when I see one. Never did it cross my mind that I would see sex toys out in the open at my local mall. The mall is where hundreds if not thousands of people frequent on a daily basis. Lets admit it we are a materialistic consumer driven society. The majority of people I see at the mall are on the younger end of the consumer spectrum. This is why when I saw the sex toys in the mall it peeked my interest, and raised a flag in my mind.

Sex toys are a subject that I am sure is taboo in most households. I don’t think we are as open as other countries. Last year when on a trip to Montreal I noticed that sex shops or gift stores had many younger people going in and out of the establishment, without embarrassment or shame. In America people are told to keep their feelings private, behind closed doors. We are taught to hide our secret passions and told that it is wrong. I am not here to say if it is right or wrong to use sex toys or to purchase them, however I do believe that everything has it’s place. The mall might not fall under the category of the most acceptable place to come across a vibrator. What ever shall the mall walkers think?

The standard or norm for sex toys interaction are designated in lingerie/sex toy shops. Usually on the side of the road or located in a strip mall of some sort. Sings usually indicating that customers cannot enter or purchase anything if under a particular age. Typically I would assume that this age would be 18 and older. The mall however doesn’t seem to abide by that or at least one popular retail shop that is affixed in most malls.

The store in question is Spencer’s Gifts. Spencer’s is known for it’s variety of humorous gifts and adult themed cards, books, games etc. They also have many other products such as jewelery and apparel. When looking towards the back of the store where the black lights, lava lamps, and various posters were located I came across an interesting array of products. Confusion came over me, never before noticing they sold vibrators admittedly I experienced double take. They had at least 4 different types or designs rather. This normally does not shock me, but on this day I was taking my younger female cousins to the mall. Despite being the “cool” older cousin, I do not want to be responsible at this point in time. Responsible for the definition what a vibrator is, what it does, and why people buy them.

Throwing a Sex Toy Party

Have you ever had a Lingerie and Sex Toy Home Party?

I had my first party in 1982, and I have never had so much fun at any kind of a party before or since, nor laughed so hard. My friends and I rolled on the floor whooping at the sight of each of us modeling sexy, (and a little whacky), lingerie. The further you are from the perfect figure, the more fun you will have. The models freely joined in the laughter – we even took pictures!
This is one kind of party men will gladly agree to attend with you, so bring your husband or boyfriend. Call it whatever you want: Girls’ Night Out, Pleasure Party, Couples Parties, Naughty Nighty Lingerie Party, Adult Novelties party, whatever suits you. Lingerie parties are hosted in your home, and can be as rowdy or dignified as you choose (but don’t count on that holding!) There’s nothing like the fun of a sex toy party to bring some spark to that relationship that’s been dragging on and on and going nowhere.

As for the products you may want to sell at your party, consider:

Nipple Nibbler’s Mandarin Orange – “A tantalizing cream for both mouth and nipples”
Who wouldn’t want this?”

Escalating Elephant – a “luxury vibrator with 21 different ways to thrill!” Better train for this one.

RomantaTherapy Sensual Warming Lubricant that “warms on contact.”
Good for cold hands!

Cremesicle Edible Body Dust – “Delicious body powder” –
In case you don’t have time to fix dinner?

Sweet Sensations – Edible gel to “excite the senses and delight the taste buds”
Dessert, perhaps?

For entertainment (besides all the laughing) you might consider inviting a professional face/body painter (or try it yourself – why not! Use paint made for the purpose), playdough for redesigning various body parts or a special movie to share. Serve some finger food (fresh fruit works great!) and have plenty of tissues handy (not to eat!) You might even consider a slumber party!

Or, you might consider becoming a Lingerie and Sex Toy Party Representative yourself. If you go to your search engine and type in “Lingerie and Sex Toy Party,” you should get plenty of hits, with an absolute encyclopedia of different plans to consider. Check these out:

http://www.freesextoys.info
http://www.bestvibrator.info

Do consider having a lingerie and sex toys party. I guarantee, you will have more fun and laugh harder than you ever have before.

Top five ways adult toys can enhance your sex life.

You’ll get to know yourself. A vibrator  gives a woman the opportunity to explore her own body with or without her partner. The more she knows about her body, the better the orgasm. Some women are comfortable with the partner watching, while others prefer to play alone. As a partner you should accept these.

You’ll get to know your partner. Adult toys give you an extra hand when playing with your partner. Combine a vibrator with oral sex or use a bullet for erogenous zone stimulation, the possibilities of how to bring in adult toys in your life or unlimited. Watch her reaction and see what works best.

You’ll explore his prostate. The prostate is often referred to as the male g-spot because of the intense orgasm that stimulation can produce. Specially-designed male sex toys are the best ways to explore this new pleasure zone.

You’ll engage in partner play. There are a variety of toys including cock rings, bullets, and vibrators, that can be used along with vaginal intercourse. The extra stimulation can intensify the orgasm for both. Consider a toy an enhancement, not a replacement.

You’ll fulfill your fantasies. Sex toys can also simulate real life fantasies including bondage, double penetration, and threesomes in your own home. Start small and see where it takes you. Sex toys can add depth to a healthy sexual relationship.

Communication is essential. If your partner is reluctant, discuss what are the problems. If both partners are willing, however, get ready to enjoy a whole new variety of lovemaking. There is a huge variety of adult toys around, just find yours.

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